{"id":368,"date":"2023-03-09T20:41:42","date_gmt":"2023-03-09T17:41:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/?p=368"},"modified":"2023-03-13T20:43:35","modified_gmt":"2023-03-13T17:43:35","slug":"ordek-sendromu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/index.php\/ordek-sendromu\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00d6RDEK SENDROMU"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"368\" class=\"elementor elementor-368\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8c47807 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8c47807\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5fa1698\" data-id=\"5fa1698\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5350f2c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5350f2c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.10.2 - 29-01-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#818a91;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#818a91;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ed78ac0 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ed78ac0\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-38aa4a0\" data-id=\"38aa4a0\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cb909d elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"1cb909d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.10.2 - 29-01-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"950\" height=\"557\" src=\"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/ordek-sendromu-1024x600.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-370\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/ordek-sendromu-1024x600.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/ordek-sendromu-300x176.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/ordek-sendromu-768x450.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/ordek-sendromu-250x147.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/ordek-sendromu-950x557.jpg 950w, https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/ordek-sendromu.jpg 1124w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 950px) 100vw, 950px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0d62beb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0d62beb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Denizin mavi sular\u0131nda dans eden \u00f6rdeklerden bahsediyorum, evet. Hani zarif s\u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc keyifle takip etti\u011fimiz su ku\u015flar\u0131&#8230; \u00a0Suyun \u00fczerindeki rahat sal\u0131n\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 izlerken asl\u0131nda suyun alt\u0131nda ayaklar\u0131n\u0131n ne kadar \u00e7aba sarf etti\u011fini g\u00f6rm\u00fcyoruz de\u011fil mi? \u0130\u015fte sosyal medya da b\u00f6yle bir yan\u0131lsama sunuyor bize. \u0130nstagramda g\u00f6r\u00fcp \u201cmillet nas\u0131l e\u011fleniyor be, biz de evimize m\u00fch\u00fcrlendik c\u0131k c\u0131k\u201d diye hay\u0131fland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015f\u0131k\u0131r \u015f\u0131k\u0131r, f\u0131k\u0131r f\u0131k\u0131r hayatlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bir yan\u0131lsamadan ibaret oluyor.<\/p><p>Demem o ki, ya\u015fam\u0131n d\u0131\u015fardan m\u00fckemmel g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ancak i\u00e7eride o kadar muhte\u015fem olmayan durumlar i\u00e7in kullan\u0131l\u0131yor bu \u201c\u00d6rdek Sendromu\u201d Sosyal medyaya yans\u0131yan mutlu, huzurlu g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fclerin perde arkas\u0131nda \u00e7o\u011fu zaman s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 hayatlar gizlenmi\u015f olabiliyor. Asl\u0131nda bir bak\u0131ma herkes hakl\u0131. Kim ister ki M\u00fcsl\u00fcm Baba\u2019n\u0131n \u201cka\u00e7 kadeh k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131 \u015fu sarho\u015f g\u00f6nl\u00fcmde \u015fark\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 dinlerken salya s\u00fcm\u00fck a\u011flayan g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc payla\u015fmak. Fakat o kadar ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131y\u0131z ki bu sosyal medyaya, Baba \u201cunutamad\u0131mmmm\u201d diye hayk\u0131r\u0131rken bizler, g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 elimizin tersiyle siler, duda\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ruju tazeler g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n verdi\u011fi \u0131\u015f\u0131lt\u0131l\u0131 bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla kameraya g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek happy hours pozu veririz. Ruj dediysem yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131n arkada\u015flar, erkekler de bu \u015fov d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde. Onlar da g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 silmez, ruj s\u00fcrmez de ne bileyim, y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki buruk ifadeyi maskeler, elinde kadehiyle hayat devam ediyor pozu keser mesela. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Show must go on!<\/p><p>Tamam, bu kadar yermiyorum bu durumu. Hepimiz i\u00e7indeyiz bu ill\u00fczyonun sonu\u00e7ta. Tabi ki \u00e7evremize ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 profiller \u00e7izmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. Yetenekli y\u00f6nlerimizi \u00f6n plana koyup, mutlu, al\u0131ml\u0131 taraflar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131yoruz. Bence bunda bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 yok. \u00d6nemli olan kendimizi oldu\u011fumuzdan farkl\u0131 g\u00f6stermemek. Hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 m\u00fckemmel g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in \u00e7aba harcamaya \u00a0gerek yok. Kimse suyun \u00fczerinde rahat\u00e7a kay\u0131p giden \u00f6rde\u011fin suyun alt\u0131ndaki o \u00e7abas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fcyor. Ama \u00f6rdek biliyor. \u00d6nemli olan da \u00f6rdek zaten, onu izleyenler de\u011fil. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fcnyam\u0131z\u0131n merkezinde kendimiz olmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p><p>K\u0131sacas\u0131 kendinizi di\u011ferlerine bakarak yetersiz ve bo\u015fa k\u00fcrek \u00e7ekiyor hissetmeyin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu sosyal medyan\u0131n filtreleme \u00f6zelli\u011finden geliyor. Payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n ne kadar be\u011fenilmi\u015f alm\u0131\u015f, ne kadar yorum alm\u0131\u015f gibi istatistikler de seni ancak birka\u00e7 saat mutlu eder. Fakat kendini sevip, oldu\u011fun gibi kabul edersen \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn sonuna kadar huzurlu kal\u0131rs\u0131n.\u00a0 Bu ba\u011flamda \u201cMant\u0131k seni A noktas\u0131ndan B noktas\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr, halay ise her yere\u201d diyen Mahmut Tuncer abimize de selam olsun ama ona kanmayal\u0131m diyorum ben. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kar\u015f\u0131ki da\u011flar cenderme cenderme\u2026<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Denizin mavi sular\u0131nda dans eden \u00f6rdeklerden bahsediyorum, evet. Hani zarif s\u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc keyifle takip etti\u011fimiz su ku\u015flar\u0131&#8230; \u00a0Suyun \u00fczerindeki rahat sal\u0131n\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 izlerken asl\u0131nda suyun alt\u0131nda ayaklar\u0131n\u0131n ne kadar \u00e7aba sarf etti\u011fini g\u00f6rm\u00fcyoruz de\u011fil mi? \u0130\u015fte sosyal medya da b\u00f6yle bir yan\u0131lsama sunuyor bize. \u0130nstagramda g\u00f6r\u00fcp \u201cmillet nas\u0131l e\u011fleniyor be, biz de evimize m\u00fch\u00fcrlendik c\u0131k c\u0131k\u201d diye [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[23],"class_list":["post-368","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gundem","tag-elvan-karanfil"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/368","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=368"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/368\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":374,"href":"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/368\/revisions\/374"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=368"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=368"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.urlahaber.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=368"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}